I was singled out because I wouldn’t really sing
Last updated 16:56, Friday, 23 May 2008
I was born five or six miles away from Sharrow Bay at Stockbridge, Tirril. It was a mixed dairy farm and my father worked there. I enjoyed making something and then eating it at the end of the day. We did breads. I can remember, all the girls’ came up and mine was still at the bottom of the bowl.
He was the tractor man. The first school I went to was just across from where the Oasis holiday park is now.
I can remember my first day, when I was five. It was horrendous. Going from the farm, where we were isolated, into school, was quite a shock.
I hid behind the teacher’s desk. It was a total shock seeing so many people coming in. That really sticks in my mind.
Another memory was that I was singled out because I wouldn’t really sing, and I was asked to sing on my own.
Then I went to the Boys County School, along from QEGS [Queen Elizabeth Grammar School]. I remember I got caught running over some desks and got the ruler across my knuckles.
I was quite shy. I used to have quite a bad stammer and had to go to speech therapy.
If you were asked a question you would never put your hand up – I was that type of character. It’s funny to think you can be so timid and then you can come into this type of world that I work in now and get near the top of the field. It just shows what you can do and how you can become more confident.
I took the 11-plus and failed it. I used to hate exams and used to get myself worked up about it.
I went to Ullswater school. It was a boys’ school with the girls’ school opposite. The move from a school with 80 pupils to the big school was an horrendous day. I just kept my head down and got on with the work.
I loved maths, history and geography and did extremely well in those, but I didn’t like English; I just couldn’t take the spellings.
I was going to be a carpenter. Then we had a careers film at the school and it showed the Royal Navy catering corps on the ships. I decided then, I’m going to go to catering school.
I went to see the headteacher to ask about going to the catering department at the girls’ school one morning a week for lessons.
It was Miss Armstrong who taught us there. There was only one other lad in the class. It was very, very strange in a class of all girls. It was quite daunting. But I enjoyed what we were learning. It was what I wanted to do.
By that time my father was a manager at the Milk Marketing Board. He had a choice of taking over my grandfather’s farm and if he had made that decision to go there that would have been it; I would probably have gone into farming.
I had never done any cooking at home. It came as a bolt out of the blue. I was good with my hands – I used to make chairs and bowls – and they thought I was going to do woodwork. So it was a bit of a shock to them when I said I wanted to go to the girls’ school and learn to cook.
I was 14 when I started that class. I decided to leave without taking my exams. I was 15. And then there was the opportunity for the job at Sharrow Bay. I had never heard of the place before that. I didn’t know anything about its reputation.
I had the interview and Francis Coulson was quite worried about the size of me and whether I would be physically strong enough, because I was just 5ft 2in, and seven stone.
I had to wait three months for my uniform because there were none small enough and they had to have it made.
I was just a commis chef, doing the washing up and cleaning. I was right at the bottom. It was good. I thought I was rich. I got £7 per week.
That first winter I started at Kendal College to do block release and get my catering exams. That was daunting going away from home. It used to be upsetting. I had to stay in digs in Kendal. It was quite an emotional time when I had to get the bus down there.
I finished the college course when I was 17 and just kept going up until there was Mr Coulson and Juan Martin (head chef). I worked with Juan for 38 years until he retired. I was about 23 when I was put up to come alongside Juan as second chef.
In those days you worked a six day, 60 hours plus week.
I never regret not going on at school or to university. I wouldn’t want to work anywhere else. I would never have wanted to go on a TV programme. You don’t have to be Gordon Ramsay.
I’m a behind the scenes man. I’m happy to do my bit and if people enjoy what we are producing here, that’s good; we do a fairly decent job.
It’s about being determined to succeed. And if you make a mistake you have to be determined to rectify it next time. Do not feel a failure. We have all made mistakes. Years ago I curdled some mayonnaise, twice. I ended up in tears. Mr Coulson was saying, how have you done that? But it just gives you determination to do better.
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